Tell him about the room
Share the date, audience, and what your people are walking through.

Your people do not need another polished talk they forget by Monday. Stephan brings a Scripture-shaped message that meets the room where it is and helps people take a clear next step toward Jesus.

Inviting a speaker is an act of trust. You are handing someone your platform, your people, and a moment you cannot repeat.
Stephan is a pastor before he is a speaker. He listens to what your people are carrying, prays into the room, and builds a message from Scripture that gives them language for where they are and a next step for where God is leading them.
Available for Sunday services, conferences, men's and women's events, leadership sessions, retreats, youth conferences, and corporate gatherings.
Share the date, audience, and what your people are walking through.
Choose the topic and format. Stephan will pray, prepare, and carry the message.
They leave with more than inspiration. They leave knowing what faithfulness looks like on Monday.

Stephan does not pull a message off a shelf. He listens to what the people in front of him are carrying and builds a word directly from Scripture for that room.
Tell him what your church or organization is walking through, and he will seek God for the message they need.
God often stretches people before He increases them. This message helps people recognize that pressure may be preparation, not punishment.
Many miracles begin with ordinary obedience. This message shows people why faithful, repeated steps are often where God hides the breakthrough.
Built around the moments Scripture says Jesus was amazed, this message challenges people to raise the ceiling on what they believe God can do.
John 15 reveals that fruitful branches are pruned for greater fruit. This message reframes painful seasons as evidence that God still sees potential.
Drawn from Stephan's book, this message reminds women that their God-given strength is not secondary, accidental, or something they need to apologize for.

There is a kind of tired that sleep does not fix. You remember the details. You carry the decisions. You step into the gap because you are not sure anyone else will.
Not a Backup goes back to what God actually said when He made the first woman and gives language to the strength women have carried all along.



For the woman who is tired but faithful, strong but stretched, and ready to stop apologizing for the strength God gave her.



Your generosity helps messages reach churches, places books into women's hands, and creates ministry moments where people remember that God is not finished with them.
You are not funding a personality. You are partnering in the harvest.
“Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that abounds to your account.”Philippians 4:17, NKJV
The room comes first. These details are here to make the process clear and uncomplicated.
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This Privacy Policy applies to stephankilgore.com and is provided by Stephan Kilgore Ministries, a Texas nonprofit ministry (“SKM,” “we,” “us,” or “our”). It explains the categories of information we may collect through this website, why we use it, when it may be disclosed, and the choices available to you.
When you submit a speaking invitation, we may collect your name, email address, phone number, church or organization, type of event, requested event date, city, state, estimated attendance, topic preference, and the information included in your message. We also receive information you voluntarily send by email or through another direct communication.
The website and its service providers may automatically process technical and usage information, including IP address, browser and device type, operating system, referring page, pages viewed, timestamps, approximate location derived from an IP address, cookies, local-storage data, and security or diagnostic information. This information may be used to operate the site, maintain security, prevent abuse, troubleshoot problems, and understand general site performance.
The invitation form uses Google reCAPTCHA v2 to reduce spam and automated abuse. reCAPTCHA may collect device and application information, IP address, cookies, and interaction data and send that information to Google for security analysis. Use of reCAPTCHA is subject to Google’s Privacy Policy and Terms of Service.
We may use information to review and respond to speaking invitations, determine availability, coordinate event details, travel, and ministry scheduling, communicate with you, maintain records, protect the site and form from abuse, investigate errors or security incidents, comply with legal obligations, enforce our agreements, and protect SKM, our users, or others.
We do not sell personal information and do not use personal information for targeted advertising. We may disclose information to service providers that perform functions on our behalf, including Carrd, Google reCAPTCHA, website or email providers, and ministry-administration vendors. We may also disclose information when required by law, subpoena, court order, or other legal process, or when we reasonably believe disclosure is necessary to investigate fraud, prevent harm, enforce an agreement, or protect legal rights.
When you select a giving link, you are taken to a Church Center page operated through Planning Center and its payment providers. Book purchases are completed through Amazon. Those third parties collect and process payment, account, device, and transaction information under their own policies. SKM does not directly receive or store the complete payment-card or bank-account credentials entered on those services.
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We retain information for as long as reasonably necessary for the purposes described in this policy, including ministry administration, follow-up, recordkeeping, fraud prevention, legal compliance, dispute resolution, and security. Retention periods vary depending on the nature of the information and our operational or legal needs.
We use reasonable administrative and technical measures intended to protect information. No method of transmission, website, or storage system is completely secure, and we cannot guarantee that unauthorized access, loss, misuse, or disclosure will never occur.
You may contact us to request access to, correction of, or deletion of personal information we maintain about you. We may need to verify your identity before completing a request. We may retain information when required by law or reasonably necessary for security, ministry records, dispute resolution, or other legitimate purposes.
This website is intended for a general adult audience and is not directed to children under 13. We do not knowingly collect personal information online from children under 13. If you believe a child has submitted information, contact us so we can review and, when appropriate, delete it.
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We may revise this policy from time to time. The effective date above identifies the current version. Material changes will apply prospectively to the extent required by law.
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This website provides information about Stephan Kilgore, speaking invitations, ministry resources, the book Not a Backup, and opportunities to support Stephan Kilgore Ministries (“SKM”). Content is offered for general informational, educational, and ministry purposes.
Nothing on this website is legal, tax, financial, medical, mental-health, or other licensed professional advice. Ministry content is not a substitute for professional care. SKM does not guarantee any spiritual, personal, financial, attendance, fundraising, sales, or event result.
Submitting an invitation does not create a contract, reserve a date, confirm availability, or obligate Stephan Kilgore or SKM to accept an engagement. An engagement exists only after the parties separately agree in writing to material terms. Travel, expenses, recordings, livestreaming, merchandise, cancellations, event promotion, and other expectations should be addressed in that separate agreement.
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To the fullest extent permitted by law, the website and its content are provided “as is” and “as available,” without warranties of any kind, express or implied, including warranties of accuracy, availability, merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, title, and noninfringement. SKM does not warrant that the site will be uninterrupted, secure, error-free, or free of harmful components.
To the fullest extent permitted by law, SKM and its directors, officers, employees, volunteers, contractors, and representatives will not be liable for indirect, incidental, special, consequential, exemplary, or punitive damages, lost profits, lost data, or damages arising from use of or inability to use the website or a linked service. Where liability cannot lawfully be excluded, aggregate liability related to the website will not exceed the greater of the amount paid directly to SKM through the website during the preceding twelve months or one hundred U.S. dollars.
To the extent permitted by law, you agree to defend, indemnify, and hold harmless SKM and its directors, officers, employees, volunteers, contractors, and representatives from claims, liabilities, losses, damages, judgments, and reasonable costs arising from your unlawful use of the site, violation of these terms, or infringement of another person’s rights.
These terms are governed by Texas law, without regard to conflict-of-law rules. Any dispute not required by law to be heard elsewhere will be brought in a state or federal court of competent jurisdiction located in Tarrant County, Texas, and the parties consent to that jurisdiction and venue.
If a provision is held unenforceable, it will be limited or modified to the minimum extent necessary, and the remaining provisions will remain effective. Failure to enforce a provision is not a waiver.
These terms and the Privacy Policy are the entire agreement concerning website use. A separate written agreement governing a speaking engagement, donation, purchase, or other relationship controls that specific matter if it conflicts with these website terms.
Questions about these terms may be sent to stephan@stephankilgore.com.