Stephan Kilgore speaking
Pastor · Author · Speaker

A message your people will remember.

Your people do not need another polished talk they forget by Monday. Stephan brings a Scripture-shaped message that meets the room where it is and helps people take a clear next step toward Jesus.

20 Years in MinistryLead Pastor for 15 YearsAuthor of Not a Backup
Stephan Kilgore
Why Stephan

The right voice can keep working after the service ends.

Inviting a speaker is an act of trust. You are handing someone your platform, your people, and a moment you cannot repeat.

Stephan is a pastor before he is a speaker. He listens to what your people are carrying, prays into the room, and builds a message from Scripture that gives them language for where they are and a next step for where God is leading them.

Speaking

Simple to invite.Built for your room.

Available for Sunday services, conferences, men's and women's events, leadership sessions, retreats, youth conferences, and corporate gatherings.

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Tell him about the room

Share the date, audience, and what your people are walking through.

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Plan the moment together

Choose the topic and format. Stephan will pray, prepare, and carry the message.

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Give people a next step

They leave with more than inspiration. They leave knowing what faithfulness looks like on Monday.

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Message Direction

What Stephan speaks on

Stephan does not pull a message off a shelf. He listens to what the people in front of him are carrying and builds a word directly from Scripture for that room.

Tell him what your church or organization is walking through, and he will seek God for the message they need.

God often stretches people before He increases them. This message helps people recognize that pressure may be preparation, not punishment.

Many miracles begin with ordinary obedience. This message shows people why faithful, repeated steps are often where God hides the breakthrough.

Built around the moments Scripture says Jesus was amazed, this message challenges people to raise the ceiling on what they believe God can do.

John 15 reveals that fruitful branches are pruned for greater fruit. This message reframes painful seasons as evidence that God still sees potential.

Drawn from Stephan's book, this message reminds women that their God-given strength is not secondary, accidental, or something they need to apologize for.

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The New Book

You are not doing it wrong.You are tired of carrying it alone.

There is a kind of tired that sleep does not fix. You remember the details. You carry the decisions. You step into the gap because you are not sure anyone else will.

Not a Backup goes back to what God actually said when He made the first woman and gives language to the strength women have carried all along.

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You are not a backup.You never were.

For the woman who is tired but faithful, strong but stretched, and ready to stop apologizing for the strength God gave her.

An honest word: Stephan knows he is a man writing to women. This is not a man telling women who to be. It is a pastor pointing them back to who God made them.
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Partner

Help put hope into real people's hands.

Your generosity helps messages reach churches, places books into women's hands, and creates ministry moments where people remember that God is not finished with them.

You are not funding a personality. You are partnering in the harvest.

“Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that abounds to your account.”Philippians 4:17, NKJV
Before You Reach Out

Common host questions.

The room comes first. These details are here to make the process clear and uncomplicated.

Church services, conferences, men's and women's events, retreats, leadership sessions, youth conferences, and corporate gatherings. Stephan can serve for a single session or a full weekend.
Forty-five days is a helpful guideline, but earlier is better. If your date is closer, reach out anyway. His schedule may still have room.
Yes. For events outside Texas, Stephan asks the host to cover airfare. The remaining details can be discussed together.
No. Stephan does not require a speaking fee or honorarium. A host may choose to give one, but it is never expected.
It begins with a conversation about your people and your present season. Stephan then prays and prepares a Scripture-based message shaped for your room.
Only when the host wants it included. There is no pressure. Your event and your people remain the priority.
Use the button below and share a few details about the event, the room, and the people you serve. Stephan will follow up personally.
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